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Near Living Experiences

5/7/2020

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Are you Just Getting By?

Are you missing out on Near Living Experiences, in favor of taking care of another dumpster fire again?

When will enough be enough?

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​I think many of us are regularly having “Near Living Experiences,” nearly living as fully as we can but not quite. We're ignoring these experiences in the face of our busy lives, letting them pass us by, and instead accepting Just Getting By (JGB) as good enough.
 
Near Living Experiences are the chances, opportunities, and openings for us to make the big and the small changes that would wildly improve our quality and appreciation of our lives- but the steps involved usually prove too much:

  1. Look up from the crazy-busy of our life
  2. Recognize the moment in front of us
  3. Accept that whatever the venture is, you can both accomplish it AND benefit from it
  4. Take on some amount of extra work to learn some kind of new skill
  5. Practice this new skill while it’s still different and separate from your normal reality
  6. Absorb this new skill into your very being’s fibers, making it automatic and ordinary SOP for you
 
The route from step 1 to Step 6 is, actually, huge. These are legitimately HARD steps.
 
It’s no wonder we can’t take advantage of our Near Living Experiences, what with all the rest of Life™ going on, and that JGB is the habitual order of things.
 
And it’s also no wonder that a LOT of people come to the realization that they MUST make some kind of change at a crisis point in their life, when JGB has stopped being a viable option.
 
At that point, you realize that any amount of work required between step 1 and step 6 is reasonable, since you simply must get to step 6 to ever feel better.
 
But this JGB habit, it’s not really a comfortable one, is it? It’s like the frog in the pot metaphor- if you put a frog in hot water, it’ll jump out. But if you put a frog in a pot of cold water then put it on low heat, the frog will sit there with its world getting gradually hotter, until it IS the soup.
 
(I have no idea if this story is true. But it illustrates the point!)

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​We tend to accept small injuries, small adaptations, small shifts in our patterns as just one more thing that we’re too overwhelmed to deal with.  In the buffet of dumpster fires before us, what’s a sore ankle?
 
Over time, though, that sore ankle causes a limp, that changes your gait and your hip function. This impacts your psoas, which tightens up and tilts your pelvis, impinging circulation in your abdomen. Slow, heavy, uncomfortable periods become the norm, and digestion stagnates too, leading to bloating and pain since lymph can’t drain away. Now your energy is low, because you’re not digesting well to support it, nor are you eating well because you feel like crap and that’s a hard place to make healthy choices from.
 
While you’ve been focusing on the dumpster fires, your own building is burning.




Now, it’s time to make your own fires a priority

In the Foot to Forehead Fix, we use a 3-pronged approach:
  1. Turn down the flames and repair the damage, with inner herbal healing
  2. Rebuild the structure, with alignment and movement practices
  3. Encourage your re-learning, and taking control and ownership of your health, with multi-media support and reinforcements
 
Those that attended my Aches and Pains workshop got a free Stick Figures of Demonstration fun sheet, to help them learn and practice aligning their pelvis. (You can too, it’s inside my free Resources Hub www.paulasherbals.com/login)
 
These fun sheets are one kind of learning medium we use. There’s also the private and the group learning sessions that are held weekly. And we have a private online community, where I share the replays of our group classes and hold discussions. There’s all kinds of good stuff, really.

I invite you to take a look inside the
Foot to Forehead Fix today, because this IS A NEAR LIVING EXPERIENCE. You're nearly living to the fullest extent you can- let's get you there.
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